Alex and Audrey reading a book with their Grandma Stanley. The books were gifts from the Giving Tree. The Giving Tree was very exciting for the kids - it kept giving presents!!! Aunt Doris and I discussed how this would be expected next year. It was fun and gave the kids something different to do as this was our 7th and final Christmas celebration of 2008. We had a lot of fun opening a lot of presents. The kids received much more than they should have but were very polite and thanked each person who got them something. At the end of the night I asked Alex what Christmas was all about. He answered, "It's about getting presents and saying Thank you!"
We made our traditional Jesus Birthday cake this year at GG's house. I iced the cake and let the crazy rug rats throw some sprinkles and junk on it. Why not? What is more sugar going to do to them on Christmas?! Audrey was funny this year. It seemed as if everything excited her. Her most favorite was a pair of bright, sparkly, black shoes. They look great with sweat pants! Alex loves his monkey jungle (as he calls it). All I know is that it makes lots of noise.
This year has been topsy-turvey! We started the year expecting a baby and we end the year with a baby in heaven. Alex still assures everyone that we will have another boy. In fact, he has his Sunday School teacher praying for it. I do believe she steps over the line when she prays "for all the babies, in case we have twins or more." Nobody in my house is talking about having babies, at least not the baby bearin' people. We are content to watch Aunt Em and Uncle Aaron grow their new one.
Alex and Audrey have grown much this year. We are now all potty trained - I am speaking for the daddy too! Only night time diapers for Audrey but hey - done at 2 1/2, I can handle that. Alex will begin school this next year and I will have a mini stroke. He is so smart. Maybe he doesn't need to go? I am just kidding for all of you who just gasped in horror. Audrey will be wanting to join school at the same time. There is a high likelihood that she will attempted to do all of his homework. She is very smart too!
We began the year with high hopes and expectations. It is amazing what can transpire in a year's time that changes your life forever. Not in just a cliche way either. I view a lot of things differently now. I hug a little longer, love a little more, look further beyond little problems (most of them). I feel more for others, cry a little more, and still have an Anaiya shaped hole in my heart. As we begin another year I have high hopes and expectations again. They are just a little different. I want to be a better witness to my kids and family. We love you all very much.
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